World & Society | Conversatori

Know That Ideology: Postmodernism

Postmodernism is a late-20th-century ideology that challenges the idea of fixed truths, stable meanings, and universal explanations, arguing instead that reality is shaped by language, culture, and power. It influences everything from identity politics and media to art, irony, and everyday phrases like “that’s a social construct.” In daily conversation, postmodernism shows up whenever people question narratives, reinterpret labels, or feel both liberated and unsettled by the idea that meaning is something we make, not something we find. Postmodernism usually sneaks into conversation disguised as something else—an argument about “my truth,” a debate over whether art has meaning, a TikTok about how nothing is real except vibes. Someone says, “That’s just a social construct,” and suddenly you’re knee-deep in a philosophy that quietly reshaped how we talk about identity, power, beauty, and even reality itself. Postmodernism isn’t just a classroom word; it’s…

Amanda Hicok

New Year, Many Cultures

The global New Year isn’t one moment but many, shaped by culture, religion, agriculture, and history. How a society marks time reveals what it values—reflection, harmony, abundance, or renewal. Understanding these differences turns small talk into perspective and reminds us that fresh starts are human, even if the dates vary. You’ll hear this topic come up at a dinner party, in a group chat on December 31st, or the first week of January when someone says, “Wait—doesn’t Lunar New Year start later?” The global New Year is one of those deceptively casual conversation starters that opens into history, religion, migration, and how humans collectively decide when a fresh start begins. It’s small talk with a passport.

Amanda Hicok

Private School, Public School, or Charter School?

School choice is a deeply personal decision that balances a child's unique needs with family values, community connection, and financial reality. While public schools offer social diversity, private schools provide specialized environments, and charters offer innovative alternatives, no single system is a guaranteed path to success. Ultimately, the best choice focuses on finding a supportive "fit" where a child can flourish, rather than seeking the most prestigious label. Selecting a child's education is rarely a cold calculation of test scores; it is an emotional navigation of values, resources, and the deep-seated desire to provide a "best" that often feels elusive. We talk about this choice so incessantly because it is one of the few moments where our private family aspirations collide with the public reality of our communities. It feels high-stakes because we aren't just choosing a curriculum; we are choosing the peers, the culture, and the daily environment that will shape a human…

Hunter Thompson

Holiday Etiquette 2025: Cell Phone Use

Holiday cell phone etiquette in 2025 is less about strict rules and more about mindful presence. Phones can enhance connection, but unchecked use often undermines the emotional purpose of holiday gatherings. Choosing when to unplug has become a modern expression of respect, care, and social intelligence. In 2025, the cell phone is no longer just a device—it’s an extension of our social identity. During the holidays, when families and friends gather with the intention of being present, phones quietly compete for attention. Holiday etiquette around cell phone use isn’t about banning technology outright; it’s about navigating the tension between digital habits and human connection. How we handle our phones at the table, on the couch, or during gift exchanges says more about us than we might realize.

Amanda Hicok

Green Christmas: How Festive Traditions Impact the Planet

Christmas traditions carry a significant environmental footprint, from trees and lights to gifts, food, and packaging. A greener holiday isn’t about sacrifice, but about intention—choosing longevity, care, and meaning over excess. By gently editing our rituals, we can create celebrations that are kinder to the planet and, often, kinder to ourselves. There is something deeply comforting about the rituals of Christmas—the familiar scent of pine, the glow of lights against winter darkness, the quiet satisfaction of wrapping gifts late at night. These traditions anchor us emotionally, especially in a world that feels increasingly unstable. But behind the warmth and nostalgia lies a less cozy reality: Christmas is one of the most resource-intensive moments of the year, compressing months’ worth of consumption into a few short weeks.

Amanda Hicok

The Secrets of Holiday Labor

The holidays run on an invisible economy of people whose workloads double as everyone else slows down. Seasonal workers, delivery drivers, retail staff, and hospitality employees take on longer hours, heavier demands, and sometimes Christmas Day itself—often in exchange for much-needed overtime or bonuses. Their labor makes the season sparkle for others, even as they navigate exhaustion, pressure, and the emotional trade-offs of working through a time meant for rest and togetherness. The holidays look effortless from the outside—twinkling lights, nostalgic music, a warm glow that suggests the world has collectively softened. But behind that glow is a secret economy powered by people whose December workloads quietly double. Seasonal labor isn’t just a footnote; it’s the engine that keeps the holidays running. From warehouse packers to restaurant servers to retail workers reminding customers that, yes, the return line starts there, the holidays stretch people’s bodies,…

Amanda Hicok

Pink Collar Power

Pink collar jobs—from nursing and teaching to medicine and the biological sciences—are still too often overlooked simply because they’re associated with women, even though they require skill, intelligence, and emotional depth. When we embrace difference feminism, we make space to celebrate women’s strengths without boxing anyone in, and we open the door for both men and women to thrive wherever their talents truly fit. Real progress means closing the wage gap, mixing genders across all fields, and finally letting go of the old, outdated divisions that no longer make sense in modern life. Pink collar jobs—teaching, nursing, biological sciences, primary-care medicine, and a whole constellation of care-oriented and detail-heavy professions—have carried a certain reputation for decades. They’ve often been framed as an extension of the home: nurturing, stabilizing, quietly essential. What’s interesting is how these fields have broadened over time. Being a “pink collar…

Amanda Hicok

Sustainability, Scarcity, and the Economics of Birthrates

The world is facing two population crises simultaneously: rapid growth in some areas that strains resources, and steep birthrate declines in the wealthy nations that threaten economic stability. High-growth countries struggle with water, food, and infrastructure pressures; low-growth ones struggle with shrinking workforces and older populations. Together, these opposite but interconnected trends reveal a global mismatch between people and the systems meant to support them. The world is entering a strange moment of demographics—one in which too many people and too few people are somehow happening at the same time. On one side, regions in the Global South continue to experience rapid population growth, straining water, food supplies, housing, and energy systems. On the other, wealthy nations are watching their birthrates collapse to historic lows, triggering economic anxieties about shrinking workforces, vanishing consumer bases, and the sustainability of social welfare systems. The…

Amanda Hicok

The Feminine Gaze vs. The Masculine Gaze

Where the masculine gaze flattens women into objects of desire or narrative accessories, the feminine gaze centers women's interiority, agency, and emotional truth. One gaze demands control; the other invites empathy. This shift in the cultural frame opens space for more complex and authentic portrayals of women's lives. The phrase "male gaze" has become common cultural shorthand, but its meaning is often flattened into "men looking at women." In film theory, the masculine gaze is more specific: it's a visual system that positions the viewer to see women as objects of desire, props for a hero's journey, or beautiful problems waiting to be solved. It's about power, not eyeballs. And that power quietly shapes how audiences learn to interpret women's bodies, emotions, and choices.

Amanda Hicok

The Social Commerce Surge

Social commerce is changing the retail landscape of the digital era by integrating social media, influencer marketing, and e-commerce into seamless and engaging shopping experiences. Very much visual in nature, enabled by personalization and frictionless transactions, it is especially appealing to younger consumers. Though challenged by issues like trust and product quality, integration of technology with immersive shopping formats makes social commerce grow further and will continue to do so by reshaping consumer behavior. The way we shop is evolving, and it is social commerce that has squarely placed itself at the heart of the transformation. Social commerce incorporates electronic commerce directly into social media, where customers discover, browse, and buy products without leaving applications like Instagram, TikTok, or Facebook. What once was merely a place to connect and share has become a bustling marketplace, blurring the line between entertainment and retail.

Amanda Hicok

Forgotten-Heroes of History

History's unsung heroes are those people who, like Claudette Colvin, Lise Meitner, and Chiune Sugihara, helped shape the world but were overshadowed by various biases, political considerations, or just bad timing. Their stories remind us that heroism often comes in a quiet form, without reward or fame. To celebrate them is to recognize that the arc of progress depends as much on the overlooked as on the lionized. Claudette Colvin

Amanda Hicok

How “Realness” Became a Performance

Authenticity has become a performance, not a truth. What was once a sign of sincerity is now a carefully crafted brand—whether in social media, marketing, or politics. The modern fixation on “being real” reveals both our anxiety about artificiality and our deep desire for connection. In a hypermediated world, even our attempts at genuineness are staged—and that might be the most human act of all. Once upon a time, "authenticity" was supposed to be effortless. It was what you had before society corrupted you-your unfiltered self, unmediated by brands, algorithms, or the pressure to perform. But in the 21st century, authenticity has become not a state of being but a strategy. It is something we do, not something we are. From influencer captions declaring "no filter" to corporations marketing "real ingredients" and "real stories," authenticity has evolved into a kind of currency—one traded in the marketplace of attention, where the appearance of honesty often counts more than…

Amanda Hicok

How Microstates Outsmart Empires

Microstates like Singapore, Luxembourg, and Bhutan overcome the imperial reasoning by turning smallness into strategy. Through diplomacy, specialization, and cultural absorption, they employ invisibility and elasticity as tools of leverage. Their concealed strength informs us that sovereignty is really located not in size but in sophistication. Mohd Kamal from Singapore., Sunrise-MarinaBay-Singapore-20090419, CC BY-SA 2.0

Amanda Hicok

Why Altruism, Not Neutrality, Should Be Our Goal

This paper argues that peace, as it is most often thought to be the supreme moral ideal, is actually a moral twilight zone—defined by three or more years without war and not by four or five years with sympathy. It suggests that societies should instead aim for a sustainable level of altruism, both nationally and globally, to ensure genuine moral progress. By institutionalizing concern rather than merely keeping aggression in check, humanity may make peace a context of shared prosperity from a transient interwar interval. Peace is too often seen as the ultimate moral achievement—a shining ideal to which all states must aspire. But peace, as we really experience it, is not so much a moral victory as a comfortable standoff. It's what happens when everybody is happy to stop fighting without anybody being happy to start to care. Between the brutality of war and the sacrifice of altruism, peace lies awkwardly in between: a moral gray area where complacency can be confused with goodness.

Amanda Hicok

Christianity in the Age of Public Confession

This article discusses how confession, as a private Christian ritual, has turned into a digital spectacle in the age of social media. It discusses how public spectacles of repentance and faith erase the line between authenticity and performance, boiling sin down to content and forgiveness to engagement. Even as the spectacle risks trivializing grace, it also points to an ancient hunger for moral meaning and redemption. Finally, the article argues for the recovery of confession as an intimate act of transformation, rather than a public spectacle. There was a time when confession was whispered in the silence of cathedrals—private, penitential, and sacred. Now it's livestreamed. The new confessional is digital, not ecclesiastical, and its priests are followers, not fathers. In a moment when social media rewards vulnerability with virality, Christianity—long marked by its rituals of guilt and grace—finds itself in a paradox. The public confession is both performance and prayer,…

Amanda Hicok

The Loneliness Epidemic in Hyper-Connected Times

In a world overflowing with digital connections, loneliness has quietly become a global epidemic. The constant buzz of notifications and curated feeds often replaces genuine intimacy with shallow visibility. True connection, it turns out, isn’t about more contacts—it’s about fewer, deeper ones. Scroll, swipe, tap, repeat. Modern life has become a choreography of endless connection, where notifications masquerade as companionship and feeds as friendships. Yet despite this digital bustle, studies show we’re lonelier than ever. Loneliness has been called the “shadow pandemic,” a global affliction cutting across age, class, and geography. Ironically, it thrives in a world where the average person has more virtual “friends” than their grandparents had neighbors.

Amanda Hicok

When Politics Becomes Performance Art

Politics has increasingly transformed into performance art, where spectacle, symbolism, and viral moments often overshadow policy substance. While performativity can empower marginalized voices and catalyze social change, it also risks reducing governance to stunts and entertainment. The challenge for citizens is to discern whether political performances illuminate deeper truths or merely distract from them. Politics has always had its theatrical elements—speeches delivered like soliloquies, debates staged like duels, and campaign rallies choreographed to rival rock concerts. But in recent decades, the line between politics and performance art has blurred almost beyond recognition. Today, the success of a political figure often hinges less on policy substance than on their ability to captivate, shock, or amuse an audience.

Amanda Hicok

Shadow Power: The Rise of Lobbyists as Unelected Leaders

Lobbyists are the ghostwriters of democracy, shaping laws while elected officials take the bows. Their power thrives in shadows, where access outmuscles accountability and private interests eclipse public will. What looks like political leadership often masks a quiet ventriloquism act, with lobbyists pulling the strings. In the theater of governance, they are the unelected directors rewriting democracy’s script. Lobbyists are the phantoms of modern politics—rarely seen, but always felt. While elected officials parade in front of cameras and cut ribbons at local factories, it is lobbyists who glide in and out of offices with the quiet assurance of people who know where the real levers of power are kept. They don’t need campaign slogans or baby-kissing photo ops; their currency is access, and their language is influence. In an age where public trust in institutions dwindles, lobbyists have risen not just as middlemen but as unelected leaders.

Amanda Hicok

The Meme-ification of Politics

Political memes have reshaped modern discourse, blending humor, brevity, and emotional appeal to engage and mobilize audiences. They democratize commentary but can also amplify polarization and misinformation. As both tools of connection and instruments of manipulation, political memes reflect the evolving intersection of culture, technology, and civic life. Kevin Hodgson, Political memes - 25815559702, CC BY 2.0

Amanda Hicok

Urban Climate Shift

Climate migration is reshaping urban life as people flee floods, fires, droughts, and rising seas. Cities are responding with new housing models, resilient infrastructure, and social integration efforts, though challenges like inequality and climate gentrification persist. The future of cities will depend on how well they balance growth, justice, and preparedness in a warming world. Gabriele Giuseppini, Floating Houses on Brigantijnkade - panoramio, CC BY 3.0

Amanda Hicok

Modern Urban Legends

Modern Urban Legends explores why eerie modern myths endure in the digital age. Urban legends persist not because we believe every detail, but because they speak to our fears, curiosity, and desire for belonging. They adapt to cultural anxieties and shape real-world behavior, proving that stories—true or not—have power over our lives. Urban legends are the campfire stories of modern life, but instead of fading in the smoke, they flourish in text messages, TikToks, and whispered warnings. They are not just eerie tales about a hook-handed man or a phantom hitchhiker; they are reflections of our deepest fears, desires, and curiosities. The psychology behind them reveals why we share these stories and why, even in the age of Google, we still believe.

Amanda Hicok

Music Festivals as Micro-Societies

Music festivals function as micro-societies, complete with social norms, economic exchanges, and communal rituals. They provide a temporary space for identity expression, cultural exchange, and collective experience, reflecting the dynamics of larger societies in condensed form. Observing these ephemeral communities offers insight into human behavior, governance, and social cohesion in a uniquely immersive environment. david_hwang, Coachella Shrine - Coachella 2012, by David Hwang, CC BY 2.0

Amanda Hicok

Renting Identity: Subscriptions, Brands, and Who We Think We Are

We increasingly rent our identities through subscriptions and brands, trading permanence for access. Services like Netflix or Peloton provide lifestyle markers that feel like selfhood but vanish once payments stop. While convenient, this fluidity makes identity unstable and dependent on corporate infrastructures. To resist, many seek permanence in tangible goods, reminding us that some aspects of identity must be owned, not rented. In the past, identity was built through personal choices that left tangible marks—what books lined our shelves, what clothes we wore, what music we collected on vinyl or CD. Today, however, we increasingly rent these markers of selfhood through subscription services and brand ecosystems. We no longer buy music; we stream it. We don’t purchase a car to signal status; we lease one or subscribe to a mobility plan. Identity has become less about what we own and more about what services and brands we temporarily align ourselves with.

Amanda Hicok

The Death of the Phone Call

The phone call, once the crown jewel of communication, has fallen out of favor in a culture that prizes control, efficiency, and asynchronous exchanges. Younger generations especially see it as disruptive, preferring texts, DMs, and voice notes over live conversation. Yet its intimacy and spontaneity still linger, leaving open the possibility of a nostalgic revival. Bob Harvey, Telephone kiosks, Manchester, CC BY-SA 2.0

Amanda Hicok