Why Altruism, Not Neutrality, Should Be Our Goal

Written on 10/23/2025
Amanda Hicok


Peace is too often seen as the ultimate moral achievement—a shining ideal to which all states must aspire. But peace, as we really experience it, is not so much a moral victory as a comfortable standoff. It's what happens when everybody is happy to stop fighting without anybody being happy to start to care. Between the brutality of war and the sacrifice of altruism, peace lies awkwardly in between: a moral gray area where complacency can be confused with goodness.

Historically, peace never meant justice; only quiet. The Roman "Pax Romana" was established upon conquest, not benevolence. The "peace" of the Cold War was sustained by terror of mutual annihilation, with a pending nuculear holocaust an embarassing alternative for all countries instead of just those incapable of getting along. Even today, world stability is often sustained at the cost of economic oppression, unequal agreements, and thoughtful restraint. We call it peace when bombs no longer fall but only occasionally when hunger no longer spreads. In this regard, peace doesn't seem so much the ethical opposite of war as its interruption. 

Altruism alone is the one condition that drives us irretrievably away from violence and complacency. It compels nations and individuals to act not only in order to secure their own convenience, but to make the other person's situation better—even at the cost of themselves. A world striving for altruism would not measure success in GDP or territory but in the wellbeing of strangers. That is, admittedly, a much higher bar—and one that feels almost ungovernably idealistic. Yet it is also the only way to ensure that peace is not merely the absence of war, but the presence of care.

 


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The problem with peace as a goal is that it lets us stop too soon. It allows countries to remain morally passive but virtuous. A nation that exports pollution but not bullets, or profits from cheap foreign labor but doesn’t declare war, can claim to be peaceful. However, passive peace is immorally—cowardly. It hides the affluent and closes its eyes to the weak. In world ethics, that is a type of cowardice disguised as harmony.

 

If we embraced altruism—a limited, rational measure of altruism, not saintly altruism—our common goal, foreign policy would change. Free trade agreements would strive, first and foremost, for the benefit of both sides, not profit. Climate action would be spurred by a wish to breathe together, not fear of catastrophe. Immigration policy would involve less boundary defending and more opportunity matching. And if war is unavoidable, traded troops from one country could be repaid in machinery or aid to a more geographically convenient area for the former. "Give and you shall receive" is made more powerful than brute military force and aligns strong allies for returned favors.

 

Domestically, too, a modest national altruism could redefine what it means to be “peaceful.” Instead of policing calm, we could cultivate care. Instead of celebrating neutrality, we could honor contribution. Imagine if a country’s global standing were based on how effectively it improved other nations’ quality of life, rather than how efficiently it avoided war. True strength would lie in the courage to help, not merely the restraint not to harm.

 



Critics will argue that altruism can't survive in the realpolitik world of international affairs, that statecraft is egocentric. But history tells a different story. The Marshall Plan rebuilt post-war Europe not so much to stem Soviet encroachment, but to stabilize human life—and, as an unintended consequence, created decades of peace and prosperity. Humanitarian interventions, debt forgiveness, distribution of vaccines: all instances that altruism, institutionalized, can both be moral and strategic. The paradox is that magnanimity, unlike peace, actually exists.

 

Perhaps the real danger is that peace has become our excuse for not dreaming bigger. It looks close and within grasp, a moral low-maintenance achievement. But peace is not the peak of moral achievement—it's a holding action. To be resting on peace is to be saying, "We are content with not killing each other," but the harder work of assuring everyone is living well is still incomplete. Peace without kindness is like a ceasefire in a dysfunctional family; quiet rather than healing.

 

Finally, we have to treat peace as a resting place, rather than a destination, between what we suffer and what we aspire to. War teaches us our capability for devastation; peace teaches us our capability for indifference. Altruism—real, measurable, institutional altruism—teaches us our capability for civilization. The task of the next century is not just to keep the world from burning, but to make the world worth saving.